Emotional impact
When a relative or friend is reported missing the emotional impact on families and friends can be varied. It is challenging to live with uncertainty and seeking professional assistance may provide additional strength.
Feelings of fear, anger, frustration, guilt, blame and helplessness are just some of the reactions relatives and friends may experience. It is important to recognise that these responses are normal and that people react to situations differently.
The following information may be helpful for families and friends of missing persons:
- Communicate with others by encouraging family members and friends of missing persons to try and talk to someone about how they are feeling.
- Take care of each other. Each person may be affected in their own way.
- Children and teenagers may need to talk about their feelings, and are sometimes afraid of upsetting their parents.
- Encourage young people to show their feelings and talk openly.
- Take one day at a time and avoid making any significant life changes.
- Try and maintain a normal daily routine.
Professional services
Family members and friends of missing persons should not hesitate to contact professional help if support is needed on an ongoing basis.
Contact your doctor, counsellor, therapist or Community Health Centre for advice.
If a loved one is located and returns home, family and friends may consider professional counselling, mediation or reconciliation to help prevent the situation recurring.
